As the eldest daughter of an early onset Dementia diagnosis we have found it difficult to come to terms with. In the early days we researched tirelessly, we tried to make sense of what is, what was and what is to come. After hearing mostly pessimistic stories about huge changes that were not altogether positive, we decided to search for light, for courage and hope that tomorrow could still be brighter as opposed to watching a cat unraveling the ball of wool attached to a still in progress jumper. The only advice I can give to families recently diagnosed is remain positive, keep smiling and loving and reminiscing. We were told all the usual 'Oh its only a matter of time, enjoy now as soon she won't know ye etc etc'. We take it day by day and so far so good. That is all that matters. Does it change the personality? Yes of course. Is it always for the worse? Maybe on some occasions but ultimately for us... absolutely not! Right now our mother is happier than we have ever seen her. We know that our love, support and encouragement of grandchildren and us to make sure she knows how wanted, needed and loved she is should be more important. This allows us to focus on the positives and therefore the more we see positive effects. Yes we are losing a strong woman who kept everything together and inspired us however, now we are seeing a more relaxed carefree soul that knows she is loved more than we ever showed. This we cherish, this we are grateful for. Now she knows we are there to be strong and hold everything together and value all the good times and sad times she has seen us through. One day at a time and always remain positive and focus on the love and memories that we will always keep in our hearts